John,
I just cannot agree with you more that both the parents must dream the same dreams as their children and try to do it together. At the end of the day whether the driver makes it to F1 that's another story. But think of the time and bonding the father and son has, it will be forever remembered. Someone once asked me why my son Ben never took to karting? I have replied more than once that at that time when I was racing, there were only sufficient funds for one driver and I tried to pursue my dreams. I forgot that my son was just as important to me like my dreams. Now I try to spend as much time as I can with my children as well as my grand daughter as I realise that dreams are made together as a family.
I often see parents also pushing their children very hard to win in a race. They often do not realise that their children needs guidance and help and not in the way of faster engines or spending extra money to get things done. It should be development of the driver's skill and the rest will fall in place. I often said that if I have to live my life all over again, I would not make the same mistakes that I have done.
Well, John best wishes and good luck but I would really think you should serve in one way or another in karting. Its after all our lives.
James Leong

